God's purpose in our lives.

The sermon at our church tonight was about finding God's purpose in our lives. It centered on the book of Ecclesiastes, where Solomon looked at the question in detail. He was rich, a king, and was known for his wisdom.

The first two parts to understanding what you are to do is to remember where you came from. God made you and has a purpose for your life. You are elect, i.e., the chosen one, and you have the power to do what He enables you to do, and nothing can keep you from doing it.

Well, nothing but our lack of knowing Him and His word. That was Solomon's answer: 12:13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter. Fear God, and keep His commandments. For this is the whole duty of man. 14 For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it is good, or whether evil.

Basically, we seek first God and His kingdom, and then He adds all good things to us. So be sure you are surrounded by believers, and in a church, and get them to pray for you. And don't neglect a quiet time to read the Bible and pray.

Remember that I am praying for you, too, and I know that God will not allow you to lack any important thing. And that includes your baby, too.

I understand your frustration. My first degree in Chemistry/Geology. Then, Theology. Then Computer Science. Now, what am I doing with all that? Nothing, directly. But I don't feel those degrees are wasted. God still has something for me in the future.

Right now, I will just serve Him every day and do what I can to help people.

He keeps me alive. He keeps my cancer from growing. So I just try to live for Him.

I pray the same for you.

In His Love,
Bill

Questioning Our Faith.

> 1. Most of people said that reglion just try to persuade people to be good, include christianity ?

Dear One,

The Latin word from which the word "religion" comes, means to hold in regard. Religion is something man does, because men have to regard something highly for it to meet the definition. Religions are man-made, and because of that, they do try to pursuade people to be good.

Christianity is not really a religion, because it is made by God. God does something for our benefit. God became a man and suffered and died. And the reasons for it were that we might have an abundant life, and that does something for our benefit. God became a man and suffered and died. And the reasons for it were that we might have an abundant life, and that we might have joy, and that our joy would be full. As you might understand, if we are full of joy and thankfulness to God, we will probably be better people, but that is a byproduct, and not a purpose, of our faith.

And yes, people do hold it in high regard, so some people call it a "religion," but it is very different from other religions, because it focuses on God, not on man.

> 2. People said that we do have some miracle things nowaday. Certain things can be recogized as miracle, but if people don't have that kinds of talent or skills or background, that things might not happen either. For example, certain people can find good and right job, however, some people couldn't...

This is difficult. I know someone who wants to have a baby, but has not been able to. She sees people all around having babies, even a teenager in the church, who probably didn't want to get married, had a baby. It all seems so unfair. She knows God can do a miracle and she can have a baby, even though she is too old and even though she has other medical problems. So why won't God do the miracle for her?

The only thing I can do is to look at Jesus. God could have done a miracle and kept Jesus from suffering and being put to a cruel death on the cross. But he didn't. He had a purpose that was bigger than what people could see at the time. Suffering and persevering are the ways Jesus earned our salvation. So suffering and persevering are very important things in our lives. They make us to be like Jesus. Paul says in II Corinthians that when we share in His suffering, we will also share in His comfort and glory. That is just part of the christian life. God is treating us like sons and daughters when we go through the same kinds of things Jesus did, and we are becoming like Jesus.

I hope you are comforted and encouraged by these words.

The family blogs as of June, 2003.

Emily

Jereme

hypothetical wife

Note: My mentioning of my wife in the previous blog is a hypothetical wife, not an actual wife. Most of my writings are hypothetical. :(

Anyway, don't think that my actual wife has bad attitudes or behaviors. :)

Male Bride?

I had formerly thought about the meaning of "bride of Christ," as it is applied to the church, but, today, I thought about it in terms applied to me. And I thougt it would be instructive to point out that our gender/sex stereotyping may be keeping us from learning a valuable lesson.

Now, as a husband, I have certain expectations of my wife. Did it ever occur to me that Christ, as my husband, may have similar expectations of me?

Do you think I can press the analogy far enough to suggest that in my relationship to Christ, I am modeling the behavior my wife observes and learns about how she should behave towards me? If I become impatient with my wife's attitudes and behaviors, are they not merely learned patterns that I have taught her, by example? If I want a better bride, I should be a better bride.

That is deep and it hurts so it must contain some truth.

Today, I messed up: Quarter Coffee

Here's the deal. Today, I messed up real well. The situation, eating lunch. Yesterday, we ate at McDonald's, and we both had fish sandwiches, and she had a coffee, and I had two apple pies for one dollar. We shared the coffee, but, since I drink it black, I had to drink what I wanted, first, and then she would add the creamer and sugar, and drink the rest. I noted that I felt uncomfortable (probably inconvenienced) because she had to wait for me to finish drinking before she could drink, but, as is my typical style, I didn't say anything.

Today, we decided to go to the same place. She had a chicken sandwich, since it was on special for 1.00, but I had the same thing as before. For drinks, I said, "I would like a 'senior coffee,'" and asked her what she wanted. She asked for water. We got our entire meal for 26 cents less than five dollars. I felt good about that. But the good feeling was not to last very long.

I noticed that she was getting creamer and sugar packets. Stubbornly, I asked her if she just wanted me to get plain water (i.e., no ice), and she said, "OK."

When we got to the table, I said, "Something doesn't add up." She said, "What?" I said, "You said you wanted water, but you got sugar and creamer."

Being only concerned about my feelings and my planned drinking experience, I purposely said something that would make her uncomfortable. What a dork!

We had a spat, and it wasn't until late in the afternoon that I got counsel from Mike about the situation, since I couldn't see what I had done to made her so mad.

Mike didn't have much time, so he gave me the short version. "You knew when she got the sugar and creamer exactly what she was thinking, didn't you?" Yet, you didn't act in accordance with that knowledge, did you? He normally has to beat around the bush in order to make sure he doesn't hurt my feelings (he has some, and thinks others must have them, too), but he had to make a call and get somewhere, so he just blurted it out. Of course, that is the way I like it. His words cut me to the quick, and I confessed my sin, and repented on the spot.

When I re-phrase what Mike said, it comes out simply, "Did you act like Jesus would have?--Did you do the loving thing?"

And I came up short!

Lord, I need you every minute, not just every hour!

Learning from counter-example

How can someone who failed at something give advice to someone who is only at the beginning of the process?

Perhaps the counter-example is all that is needed.

Perhaps it was like a fork in the road and you took the wrong fork. You can give good instructions up to the fork, and then tell them which is the right one to take based upon your knowledge of which path was wrong.

Perhaps you are older and wiser, now.

Perhaps it is your duty to give it. Even advice from someone who succeeded is only advice. Who knows what will be heeded?

So, maybe I will be able to talk to my daughters about husbands and marriage.